What is it they saw about “the best laid plans?”

I tried to start this challenge on January 9th. I even wrote my initial blog post. But three things happened: one, I chickened out of making a Tiktok, even though that was an important element of this project that I really wanted to try. Two, my grandmother passed away, which was tumultuous emotionally. Three, my car…well, for a lack of a better word, exploded.

Everything sort of spiraled out of control from there. I wasn’t in a good headspace for a challenge, my family was under a lot of stress while my mom was taking care of things out of state, and buying a car went from a “I should do this soon” to “I need to do this right this second.”

So now things have calmed down a bit. My mom is back, I have a safe new car (with air conditioning and an intact back window!), and I have actually put together my first Tiktok. However, I am now on cycle day 18 (five days past ovulation) on TTC cycle #42. Not ideal.

The elements of my challenge are staying the same- tracking calories, tracking sleep, drinking more water, exercising more, keeping up with my vitamins- plus the added elements of a daily journal prompt, a beauty or health thing, a creativity thing, and a way to connect with my friends and family. I’ve also added another element- a daily cleaning thing. Keeping my apartment clean is such a struggle when I’m feeling low emotionally, so hopefully with giving myself one small task per day I can have a clean, organized home by the end of the 100 days.

So what did I do today?

I’m going to be honest…the calories/water/exercise/sleep isn’t going to start until Saturday. My off days at work are Thursdays and Fridays, so this weekend is more for me to get my shit together, so to speak. Saturday will kick off the routine. So did I eat well or exercise today? No, but we’ll get there.

Beauty and Style: trim my hair

My hair is…sad. So sad. My thyroid condition means that my hair is very brittle and fragile, on top of not being blessed by genetics. My hair doesn’t really grow, it’s very frizzy, and the ends are wild. Eventually I’ll go get a haircut, but today I trimmed the ends, dusted the worst of the split ends, and attempted to shape the front pieces just a little bit. I’m also attempting the Abbey Yung method- I’ve been half heartedly trying it since the new year, but I really want to focus on it.

Creativity: take before and after photos

Okay, so these were taken. Am I going to share them? Not yet. I’m not ready for that. I am…not confident right now. My weight has shot up over the past few years with my thyroid/depressive eating/side effects from fertility medications. I was able to lose about sixty pounds, but I’ve gained a little of it back over the past three months. I have a number I’d like to reach by the end of the 100 days, but at the very least I’d like to feel healthier and stronger and more confident by the time I go on my family vacation at the beginning of May. I also took my measurements, so we’ll see how those things change.

Connection: get recommendations for things to read and watch

I love to read, but I never make time for it. A lot of my friends are also huge readers, so I want to take their recommendations so we can have more things to talk and bond over! I’ve got a running list of books and movies and TV shows, so I’ll see how many of them I’m able to get through.

Cleaning: tidy up my car

My old car (a 2013 Chevy Sonic) was being held together by good vibes. The coolant system had broken at least once a year for five years, it hasn’t had AC or heat for at least two, and it stalled out on me more times than I can count. When we took it to get repaired last spring (after getting it towed twice in 48 hours), the mechanic told us not to put any more money into that car. It had mold growing behind the touch screen (which had been broken since 2021). So needless to say, the whole car was a dumpster fire. I want to keep my new car as clean as possible, so I made it a point to tidy it up today. I have a bunch of cute pink accessories and bumper stickers, and I want to keep it nice!

Journaling: reflecting on three years of trying to conceive

The journaling is something I’m doing privately, but…yeah, this is a lot to unpack. This is not where I expected to be after three years, but hopefully everything will be different next year.

So there it is, day 1 out of 100. Did I do everything I wanted to do? No, but I have such an all-or-nothing personality that I need to learn how to keep going instead of restarting every time something is a little less than perfect.